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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
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Resty Wyse
2018-03-30 16:15:41 UTC
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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
Yale Guen Mar, you should be ashamed of such a sanctimonious post.

Yale Guen Mar, you are an ingrate. Your lack of accomplishment is exceeded only by your bilious malice.

Yale Guen Mar, you should be grateful how Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong always kept you well fed and well cared for.

Yale Guen Mar, your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar, were good parents and noble souls. Your siblings like Ellen Heath, Donald Yale Mar and Eugene Yale Mar are achievers because they had parents like Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar.

Yale Guen Mar, you owe everything to your dad Tony Chee Mar.

Tony Chee Mar signed papers in 1949 (when you were 11) declaring that you are his son so that you could get refuge in USA after escaping from China under CCP dictatorship.

Tony Chee Mar taight you English and math. He taught you rational numbers and irrational numbers.

He gave you a job at his cafe.

Most of all he gave you a room in his house on 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ.

Yale Guen Mar, you had that room at 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ long into adulthood.

But you are an ingrate. You have been damning the Mar clan in general and Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong in particular.

You have been speaking ill of even your venerated cousin Col. Homer Yale Mar.

https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/2CrEQCFOylw
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The Mar clan was a barrel of rotten apples, especially Ben's family.
Yale Guen Mar, that's pathetic. Just because you have turned out to be a failed human being is no reason to damn the entire Mar clan whose members have distinguished themselves in may fields. It would have been the honest thing for you to do to admit that you are the black sheep of the Mar clan.

Uncle Ben was a very generous man. That is why he gave you a chance when he employed you in your teens as a janitor in his Junction City Cafe. He had plans to send you to college at Kansas State University in Manhattan, KS.

But you were totally unworthy of his generosity. And once Uncle Ben realized that you were incorrigible, he fired you, beat the crap out of you and sent you back to Arizona where you proceeded to continued to make a career out of firings.

How many times were you fired from your job, Yale Guen Mar, before you resigned to your fate of living off Uncle Sam's welfare checks? And now your "success" consists of supplementing your welfare checks from Uncle Sam with 50 cents per approved post from Uncle Chang - truly a wasted life.

Here is a partial list of employers who had to fire you for your lack of honsty and work ethics:

Yale Guen Mar, won't it be far more fruitful for you to analyze why you get fired from your menial jobs consistently and repeatedly?

Yale Guen Mar, you most certainly didn't get fired from all your menial jobs because you were a star performer.

* Junction City Cafe of Kansas fired you.
* Double Happiness Restaurant of Arizona fired you.
* Peacock Restaurant of Arizona fired you.
* Mesa Rice Bowl of Arizona fired you
* The US Army gave you a dishonorable discharge.
* Dynalectron's cafeteria in California fired you.
* Gene-Gee Restaurant of California fired you.
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Homer was a bully all his life.
Really? You are accusing cousin Homer of being a bully?!!

Yale Guen Mar, you always had a love-hate relationship with cousin Homer. You used to needlessly pick fights with Homer. You fought like cats and dogs.

Cousin Homer was 3 years older. So, it isn't surprising that you always came out crying after the thrashing you received at Homer's hand. You used to run crying not just your mama, Kim Hi Wong, but even to your aunt Susan Suey Oy Wong.

That didn't make Homer a bully. It made you a crybaby and a spoiled brat.

Homer is indeed an accomplished person. He served in Vietnam and went on to retire as a colonel in the US Army.

You, Yale Guen Mar, on the other hand got a dishonorable discharge as a private. If you were not slapped with a loss of rank, it was only because you were already at the lowest rung in the army.
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His wife was overweight,
Cynthia is overweight? You are jealous even of Homer's beautiful wife Cynthia.

No surprise there. Not even a sow would sleep with you. You have spent your life finger-fucking pigs in their assholes. You have infected countless pigs with STDs but now you reap as you sowed. Your middle fingers are so badly infected with STDs that your Merced doctors have advised on their amputation.
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his first son never went to college,
his second and third sons are living in rural North Carolina.
And now you are finding fault with Homer's sons?

Homer has led an exemplary life.

Uncle Ben Shee Mar and aunt Susan Suey Oy Wong were proud of their son, Homer.

You, Yale Guen Mar, on the other hand were always a deep disappointment to your parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong.

Funeral rites for an elderly person follow the prescribed form and convey relevant respect: rites befitting the person's status, age etc. are performed even if this means the family of the deceased must go into debt to pay for them.

Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suye Oy Wong were fortunate to be honored at their burial by their children and grandchildren. They lie buried side by side in Duncanville, Texas.

Nephew Yale Guen Mar was not welcome at the funerals by the Mar clan, and for understandable reasons.

But then Yale Guen Mar wasn't welcome at the funerals of his parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong either. No one wanted him at the funerals.

At Qingming Festival every year, Homer Yale Mar and his siblings pay respect to their parents Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong, and all relatives and ancestors who have passed away. They spend time tidying up the graves and tombstones of Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong. They offer food, flowers and paper money to their ancestors.

In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar spends time sulking about times when he got spanked by his father Tony Chee Mar and mother Kim Hi Wong for misbehavior.
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Homer worked for army post exchange headquarter shipping merchandize to army PX stores.
That just shows you know shit.
Shit is that shit does. And you, Yale Guen Mar, have spent a lifetime shitting in and without diapers,

Yale Guen Mar, come down to earth. You have very many pressing issues, especially with your hemorrhoid-scarred asshole.

Yale Guen Mar, your sphincter muscles have been gone for good. What are your plans? While away in diapers twirling your thumbs? Or are you going to be proactively looking for a cure?

Meichi Thai has kept the Hmong neighbors apprised of Yale Guen Mar's travails following the surgery to extricate the opo squash that had got lodged inside Yale Guen Mar's asshole when an enraged Ms. Lee of the Merced Community Food Market assaulted Yale Guen Mar for farting inside the grocery store.

But it looks like Yale Guen Mar's sphincter muscle is now beyond redemption. Yale Guen Mar wants a sphincter muscle transplant to regain control over his asshole. Doctors are looking for possible donors in Merced's piggeries.

In the meantime, as a temporary fix, the doctors have suggested use of corks in Yale Guen Mar's asshole to stem continuous outflow of stool. Resty's caregiver, Meichi Thai, has been inserting corks into Yale Guen Mar's asshole to stem the flow.

Meichi Thai, apprising the Hmong neighbors on Twlight Avenue, lamented that it was indeed a very messy situation inside 3851 Twilight Avenue in Merced, CA. She dreads every time she has to uncork Yale Guen Mar's asshole to release the shit inside him.

Yale Guen Mar, you have far more immediate and far more graver issues to attend to to be wasting your time thinking ill of others.

The latest calamity to befall you is your loss of use of your sphincter muscle following the assault on you by Ms. Lee with an opo squash inside the Merced Community Food Market.

Yes, doctors may try to transplant a sphincter muscle of a pig on to your asshole to give you a modicum of control over your ability to shit normally. But you'll be better off accepting the generous offer of your Hmong neighbors. They want you you to travel ASAP to your physician, Dr. Dong, in Cambodia for alternate medical treatment of your ailment. Your Hmong neighbors have voted to finance your trip to Cambodia provided you agree never to come back to Merced or even to USA.

So, Yale Guen Mar, take advantage of the generous offer by your Hmong neighbors and move to Cambodia for good. That would also take care of your other problem - the court ordered restraining order on you never to be within 200 yards of Yue Chen Market of the Miaos.

Yale Guen Mar, I think it is as apt as it is momentous that Mr. Miao of Yue Cheng Market has obtained restraining order against you. Don't be within 200 yards of Yue Cheng Market unless you want to spend the rest of your life inside a psychiatric ward to keep your mental illness under control.
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2018-03-31 02:19:32 UTC
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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
Yale Guen Mar, you should be ashamed of such a sanctimonious post.
Yale Guen Mar, you are an ingrate. Your lack of accomplishment is exceeded only by your bilious malice.
Yale Guen Mar, you should be grateful how Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong always kept you well fed and well cared for.
Yale Guen Mar, your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar, were good parents and noble souls. Your siblings like Ellen Heath, Donald Yale Mar and Eugene Yale Mar are achievers because they had parents like Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar.
Yale Guen Mar, you owe everything to your dad Tony Chee Mar.
Tony Chee Mar signed papers in 1949 (when you were 11) declaring that you are his son so that you could get refuge in USA after escaping from China under CCP dictatorship.
Tony Chee Mar taight you English and math. He taught you rational numbers and irrational numbers.
He gave you a job at his cafe.
Most of all he gave you a room in his house on 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ.
Yale Guen Mar, you had that room at 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ long into adulthood.
But you are an ingrate. You have been damning the Mar clan in general and Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong in particular.
You have been speaking ill of even your venerated cousin Col. Homer Yale Mar.
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/2CrEQCFOylw
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The Mar clan was a barrel of rotten apples, especially Ben's family.
Yale Guen Mar, that's pathetic. Just because you have turned out to be a failed human being is no reason to damn the entire Mar clan whose members have distinguished themselves in may fields. It would have been the honest thing for you to do to admit that you are the black sheep of the Mar clan.
Uncle Ben was a very generous man. That is why he gave you a chance when he employed you in your teens as a janitor in his Junction City Cafe. He had plans to send you to college at Kansas State University in Manhattan, KS.
But you were totally unworthy of his generosity. And once Uncle Ben realized that you were incorrigible, he fired you, beat the crap out of you and sent you back to Arizona where you proceeded to continued to make a career out of firings.
How many times were you fired from your job, Yale Guen Mar, before you resigned to your fate of living off Uncle Sam's welfare checks? And now your "success" consists of supplementing your welfare checks from Uncle Sam with 50 cents per approved post from Uncle Chang - truly a wasted life.
Yale Guen Mar, won't it be far more fruitful for you to analyze why you get fired from your menial jobs consistently and repeatedly?
Yale Guen Mar, you most certainly didn't get fired from all your menial jobs because you were a star performer.
* Junction City Cafe of Kansas fired you.
* Double Happiness Restaurant of Arizona fired you.
* Peacock Restaurant of Arizona fired you.
* Mesa Rice Bowl of Arizona fired you
* The US Army gave you a dishonorable discharge.
* Dynalectron's cafeteria in California fired you.
* Gene-Gee Restaurant of California fired you.
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Homer was a bully all his life.
Really? You are accusing cousin Homer of being a bully?!!
Yale Guen Mar, you always had a love-hate relationship with cousin Homer. You used to needlessly pick fights with Homer. You fought like cats and dogs.
Cousin Homer was 3 years older. So, it isn't surprising that you always came out crying after the thrashing you received at Homer's hand. You used to run crying not just your mama, Kim Hi Wong, but even to your aunt Susan Suey Oy Wong.
That didn't make Homer a bully. It made you a crybaby and a spoiled brat.
Homer is indeed an accomplished person. He served in Vietnam and went on to retire as a colonel in the US Army.
You, Yale Guen Mar, on the other hand got a dishonorable discharge as a private. If you were not slapped with a loss of rank, it was only because you were already at the lowest rung in the army.
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His wife was overweight,
Cynthia is overweight? You are jealous even of Homer's beautiful wife Cynthia.
No surprise there. Not even a sow would sleep with you. You have spent your life finger-fucking pigs in their assholes. You have infected countless pigs with STDs but now you reap as you sowed. Your middle fingers are so badly infected with STDs that your Merced doctors have advised on their amputation.
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his first son never went to college,
his second and third sons are living in rural North Carolina.
And now you are finding fault with Homer's sons?
Homer has led an exemplary life.
Uncle Ben Shee Mar and aunt Susan Suey Oy Wong were proud of their son, Homer.
You, Yale Guen Mar, on the other hand were always a deep disappointment to your parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong.
Funeral rites for an elderly person follow the prescribed form and convey relevant respect: rites befitting the person's status, age etc. are performed even if this means the family of the deceased must go into debt to pay for them.
Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suye Oy Wong were fortunate to be honored at their burial by their children and grandchildren. They lie buried side by side in Duncanville, Texas.
Nephew Yale Guen Mar was not welcome at the funerals by the Mar clan, and for understandable reasons.
But then Yale Guen Mar wasn't welcome at the funerals of his parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong either. No one wanted him at the funerals.
At Qingming Festival every year, Homer Yale Mar and his siblings pay respect to their parents Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong, and all relatives and ancestors who have passed away. They spend time tidying up the graves and tombstones of Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong. They offer food, flowers and paper money to their ancestors.
In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar spends time sulking about times when he got spanked by his father Tony Chee Mar and mother Kim Hi Wong for misbehavior.
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Homer worked for army post exchange headquarter shipping merchandize to army PX stores.
That just shows you know shit.
Shit is that shit does. And you, Yale Guen Mar, have spent a lifetime shitting in and without diapers,
Yale Guen Mar, come down to earth. You have very many pressing issues, especially with your hemorrhoid-scarred asshole.
Yale Guen Mar, your sphincter muscles have been gone for good. What are your plans? While away in diapers twirling your thumbs? Or are you going to be proactively looking for a cure?
Meichi Thai has kept the Hmong neighbors apprised of Yale Guen Mar's travails following the surgery to extricate the opo squash that had got lodged inside Yale Guen Mar's asshole when an enraged Ms. Lee of the Merced Community Food Market assaulted Yale Guen Mar for farting inside the grocery store.
But it looks like Yale Guen Mar's sphincter muscle is now beyond redemption. Yale Guen Mar wants a sphincter muscle transplant to regain control over his asshole. Doctors are looking for possible donors in Merced's piggeries.
In the meantime, as a temporary fix, the doctors have suggested use of corks in Yale Guen Mar's asshole to stem continuous outflow of stool. Resty's caregiver, Meichi Thai, has been inserting corks into Yale Guen Mar's asshole to stem the flow.
Meichi Thai, apprising the Hmong neighbors on Twlight Avenue, lamented that it was indeed a very messy situation inside 3851 Twilight Avenue in Merced, CA. She dreads every time she has to uncork Yale Guen Mar's asshole to release the shit inside him.
Yale Guen Mar, you have far more immediate and far more graver issues to attend to to be wasting your time thinking ill of others.
The latest calamity to befall you is your loss of use of your sphincter muscle following the assault on you by Ms. Lee with an opo squash inside the Merced Community Food Market.
Yes, doctors may try to transplant a sphincter muscle of a pig on to your asshole to give you a modicum of control over your ability to shit normally. But you'll be better off accepting the generous offer of your Hmong neighbors. They want you you to travel ASAP to your physician, Dr. Dong, in Cambodia for alternate medical treatment of your ailment. Your Hmong neighbors have voted to finance your trip to Cambodia provided you agree never to come back to Merced or even to USA.
So, Yale Guen Mar, take advantage of the generous offer by your Hmong neighbors and move to Cambodia for good. That would also take care of your other problem - the court ordered restraining order on you never to be within 200 yards of Yue Chen Market of the Miaos.
Yale Guen Mar, I think it is as apt as it is momentous that Mr. Miao of Yue Cheng Market has obtained restraining order against you. Don't be within 200 yards of Yue Cheng Market unless you want to spend the rest of your life inside a psychiatric ward to keep your mental illness under control.
Take them, Satish. I want no part of them!!!
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2018-03-31 06:36:12 UTC
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Take them, Satish. I want no part of them!!!
I don't have to take them. Your siblings Ellen, Donald and Eugene have already taken them.

https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/REgx5MQOtTA
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What is your big hangup on parents, brothers and sisters, Satish? I haven't had any contact with them for over 20 years.
Yale Guen Mar, aren't you the one with hangups? Why else would you shun all your kith and kin for over 20 years?

https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/1C7sgELMJ78

Yale Guen Mar. You are 79. Unfortunately, your maturity belies your age.

https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/UqPjXT6A9Ys
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"...don't ever forget what you owe to your Chinese parents. "
I cussed them out for bringing me into this terrible world.
I cussed them out for being lousy parents.
I cussed them out for being ignorant parents.
I cussed them out for being typical Chinese parents.
I cussed them out for being uneducated parents.
I cussed them out for following Manchu cultured parents....
Yale Guen Mar, your cussing didn't make your parents small any more than it made you great.

Yale Guen Mar, always remember what you owe to your Chinese parents.

Yale Guen Mar, never blame your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar, for all your woes. Act like a grown up. For heaven's sake, you'll be 79 in less than 3 weeks. Act your age. You should make an honest attempt to own up to your deep character flaws before you croak.

Yale Guen Mar, aren't you the black sheep in the family?. KIm Hi Wong always worried about you. That is why she spanked you all the time to keep you in the straight and narrow. No wonder your buttocks were sore all the time when you were growing up.

But Kim Hi Wong's efforts to redeem you never succeeded . She could drag a mule like you to the well, but she couldn't make you drink from the well.

Yale Guen Mar, you will be 79 on February 1. Do you remember how you muddied the San Francisco Bay in 1949 as soon as you got off the boat from Hong Kong?

Yale Guen Mar, try to make a new beginning. Try hard to get over your grudge against your "dad" Tony Chee Mar.

Yale Guen Mar, you owe Tony Chee Mar everything. Recall that you met Tony Chee Mar for the first time as a 11 year old "Fresh of the Boat" in San Francisco - you had just arrived from Hong Kong in 1949 after the communists took over the country you were born in. Out of the kindness of his heart, Tony Chee Mar (a US citizen) declared that you were his son so that you could be in USA.

Recall what he told you when you arrived in San Francisco. Tony Chee Mar told you, "Yale, you are a turkey".

Tony Chee Mar then added, "This is Thanksgiving. We are going to have turkey."

Wonder-struck, you had said, "Dad, what is Thanksgiving, what is turkey?"

Tony Chee Mar did punish you often, but that was only because he had to and not because it gave him any pleasure. Yale Guen Mar, you were always a pain in the ass. But Tony Chee Mar hoped his (and Kim Hi Wong's) punishments will help you become a better person.

Unfortunately, that was not to be. You were simply incorrigible. You just couldn't stay out of mischief. This, together with the obsession you had developed as a child in rural China for finger-fucking pigs in their assholes, made it inevitable that you would never be more than the miserable self you are right now.
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I cussed them out for being lousy parents.
Your mommy, Kim Hi Wong, and your dad, Tony Chee Mar, were good parents and noble souls. Your accomplished siblings Donald Yale Mar, Ellen Heath and Eugene Yale Mar have never failed to acknowledge the contribution of their parents Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar to their own successes.

Yale Guen Mar, don't be an ingrate. Your plight is your own doing. Tony Chee Mar always did his best to bring you up the right way. It is the height of ingratitude to badmouth Tony Chee Mar for your own failings.
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I cussed them out for being ignorant parents.
The only think they were ignorant of was that they were fighting a losing cause in trying to get an incorrigible rascal like you to grow up into decent human being like their other children Donald, Ellen and Eugene. But one can drag a mule to the well, but it cannot be made to drink from the well unless it wants to.
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I cussed them out for being typical Chinese parents.
What's wrong with being typical Chinese parents?

Donald, Ellen and Eugene grew up to be accomplished, honest upright citizens
So did Homer, Gini, Lawrence, Homer and Clarence.

You are the only black sheep in the family.

There was nothing wrong in the way Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar brought up their kids. It wasn't their fault that they had a kid like you.
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I cussed them out for being uneducated parents.
Tony Chee Mar brought you up in his home in 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ. He let you work in his cafe. He taught you English and mathematics. He taught you the difference between a rational number and an irrational number.

If you failed to get an education, it was your fault, not theirs. Your siblings didn't fail them. Donald, Ellen and Eugene are as honest and upright as they are accomplished.
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I cussed them out for following Manchu cultured parents....
Better to have cultured parents than uncultured parents.

And anyway, you shouldn't grudge the fact that Tony Chee Mar cut off your pigtail the moment you landed in San Francisco on the Thanksgiving day of 1949.

Nor should you grudge Tony Chee Mar for refusing to shave a straight line along your head.

Tony Chee Mar was a thoughtful father. He didn't want you to be ridiculed and heckled by your school mates in the new country.

That is why he chopped off your pigtail as soon as you got off the boat in San Francisco. And that is why he shaved off all your hair so that you could grow a normal crew cut and meld with your classmates.
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Take them, Satish. I want no part of them!!!
I don't have to take them. Your siblings Ellen, Donald and Eugene have already taken them.
They are worse than me.
The headstone had a problem since the very beginning.
They wouldn't even get the stone cutter to correct it.
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https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/REgx5MQOtTA
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What is your big hangup on parents, brothers and sisters, Satish? I haven't had any contact with them for over 20 years.
Yale Guen Mar, aren't you the one with hangups? Why else would you shun all your kith and kin for over 20 years?
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/1C7sgELMJ78
Yale Guen Mar. You are 79. Unfortunately, your maturity belies your age.
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.culture.china/UqPjXT6A9Ys
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"...don't ever forget what you owe to your Chinese parents. "
I cussed them out for bringing me into this terrible world.
I cussed them out for being lousy parents.
I cussed them out for being ignorant parents.
I cussed them out for being typical Chinese parents.
I cussed them out for being uneducated parents.
I cussed them out for following Manchu cultured parents....
Yale Guen Mar, your cussing didn't make your parents small any more than it made you great.
Yale Guen Mar, always remember what you owe to your Chinese parents.
Yale Guen Mar, never blame your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar, for all your woes. Act like a grown up. For heaven's sake, you'll be 79 in less than 3 weeks. Act your age. You should make an honest attempt to own up to your deep character flaws before you croak.
Yale Guen Mar, aren't you the black sheep in the family?. KIm Hi Wong always worried about you. That is why she spanked you all the time to keep you in the straight and narrow. No wonder your buttocks were sore all the time when you were growing up.
But Kim Hi Wong's efforts to redeem you never succeeded . She could drag a mule like you to the well, but she couldn't make you drink from the well.
Yale Guen Mar, you will be 79 on February 1. Do you remember how you muddied the San Francisco Bay in 1949 as soon as you got off the boat from Hong Kong?
Yale Guen Mar, try to make a new beginning. Try hard to get over your grudge against your "dad" Tony Chee Mar.
Yale Guen Mar, you owe Tony Chee Mar everything. Recall that you met Tony Chee Mar for the first time as a 11 year old "Fresh of the Boat" in San Francisco - you had just arrived from Hong Kong in 1949 after the communists took over the country you were born in. Out of the kindness of his heart, Tony Chee Mar (a US citizen) declared that you were his son so that you could be in USA.
Recall what he told you when you arrived in San Francisco. Tony Chee Mar told you, "Yale, you are a turkey".
Tony Chee Mar then added, "This is Thanksgiving. We are going to have turkey."
Wonder-struck, you had said, "Dad, what is Thanksgiving, what is turkey?"
Tony Chee Mar did punish you often, but that was only because he had to and not because it gave him any pleasure. Yale Guen Mar, you were always a pain in the ass. But Tony Chee Mar hoped his (and Kim Hi Wong's) punishments will help you become a better person.
Unfortunately, that was not to be. You were simply incorrigible. You just couldn't stay out of mischief. This, together with the obsession you had developed as a child in rural China for finger-fucking pigs in their assholes, made it inevitable that you would never be more than the miserable self you are right now.
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I cussed them out for being lousy parents.
Your mommy, Kim Hi Wong, and your dad, Tony Chee Mar, were good parents and noble souls. Your accomplished siblings Donald Yale Mar, Ellen Heath and Eugene Yale Mar have never failed to acknowledge the contribution of their parents Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar to their own successes.
Yale Guen Mar, don't be an ingrate. Your plight is your own doing. Tony Chee Mar always did his best to bring you up the right way. It is the height of ingratitude to badmouth Tony Chee Mar for your own failings.
Post by Resty Wyse
I cussed them out for being ignorant parents.
The only think they were ignorant of was that they were fighting a losing cause in trying to get an incorrigible rascal like you to grow up into decent human being like their other children Donald, Ellen and Eugene. But one can drag a mule to the well, but it cannot be made to drink from the well unless it wants to.
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I cussed them out for being typical Chinese parents.
What's wrong with being typical Chinese parents?
Donald, Ellen and Eugene grew up to be accomplished, honest upright citizens
So did Homer, Gini, Lawrence, Homer and Clarence.
You are the only black sheep in the family.
There was nothing wrong in the way Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar brought up their kids. It wasn't their fault that they had a kid like you.
Post by Resty Wyse
I cussed them out for being uneducated parents.
Tony Chee Mar brought you up in his home in 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ. He let you work in his cafe. He taught you English and mathematics. He taught you the difference between a rational number and an irrational number.
If you failed to get an education, it was your fault, not theirs. Your siblings didn't fail them. Donald, Ellen and Eugene are as honest and upright as they are accomplished.
Post by Resty Wyse
I cussed them out for following Manchu cultured parents....
Better to have cultured parents than uncultured parents.
And anyway, you shouldn't grudge the fact that Tony Chee Mar cut off your pigtail the moment you landed in San Francisco on the Thanksgiving day of 1949.
Nor should you grudge Tony Chee Mar for refusing to shave a straight line along your head.
Tony Chee Mar was a thoughtful father. He didn't want you to be ridiculed and heckled by your school mates in the new country.
That is why he chopped off your pigtail as soon as you got off the boat in San Francisco. And that is why he shaved off all your hair so that you could grow a normal crew cut and meld with your classmates.
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They are worse than me.
The headstone had a problem since the very beginning.
They wouldn't even get the stone cutter to correct it.
Yale Guen Mar, your head has a problem.

Unfortunately it remains unfixed.

Yale Guen Mar, you have been estranged from the Mar clan for a long time.

Now that you are at the fag end of your miserable life, you should try to make amends.

Don't you want Eugene Yale mar to accept you as a friend on Facebook?

Why don't you join him in Tucson, AZ on the Quing Ming Festival on April 5 to honor and humor the ghosts of your parents Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar? Tend to their graves in East Palm Cemetery (Lot 49). Bring the choicest Mai Tai and the finest in Taishanese cuisine to offer to the ghosts of your parents.

Burn paper money and incense. Tie a willow branch on your head and dance. Fly a kite to please your mother Kim Hi Wong.

Play your cards right and Eugene might yet accept you as a friend on Facebook.
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They are worse than me.
The headstone had a problem since the very beginning.
They wouldn't even get the stone cutter to correct it.
There was nothing wrong with the headstone. You tried to vandalize it and got caught and beaten up by Donald.
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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
Is it any surprise that your doctor in Safford, AZ (Dr. Jenkins) wanted you committed to a mental institution.
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Dr. Jenkins was a gentleman and fine doctor.
In a small town of 5,000 - 8,000 people, everyone knows everyone else,
even though we were never formally introduced.
My father was proud to talk about his engineer son, and the town's people
know me.
Didn't your father know you had bought a fake diploma in engineering?

Yale Guen Mar, you have been faking a lot of things. Tell us about your mail order diploma. How much did you spend to get the fake degree?

You have been faking a lot of things Yale Guen Mar. You claimed you were an electrical engineer who worked in a missile testing facility.

And then you talked too much and it turned out that you have no idea of what control engineering is, let alone do a literature search in it.

A janitorial job or a cafeteria job, even at a defense establishment, does not require security clearance. And even if it did, you would not have dared apply for it lest you get caught for obtaining citizenship papers fraudulently.

Yale Guen Mar had never seen his alleged biological father till he was 11 when he landed in San Francisco.

But the claim is that Yale Guen Mar was not an accidental baby. The alleged biological father is alleged to have mailed his seeds to Yale Guen Mar's father by postal service.

In the pre-DNA era, Yale Guen Mar managed to sneak into USA in 1949 on the basis of this dubious paternity claim.

Yale Guen Mar, you are an illegal alien with fake citizenship papers.
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Take them, Satish. I want no part of them!!!
Yale Guen Mar, were you unhappy when Tony Chee Mar gifted you a 1963 Pontiac when you were 25 ? He did it in the hope that such generosity will give you the incentive to turn over a new leaf.

But Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong learnt to their eternal regret that while you can drag a mule to a well, you cannot make it drink from it.

Ellen Heath, Donald Yale Mar and Eugene Yale Mar have always held the family to be dear and it has made them happy.

You harm no one but yourself when you push the family away.

Yale Guen Mar, you have taken sibling rivalry to ridiculously vicious levels.

Why can't you appreciate the achievements of your brothers Donald and Eugene who are successful as medical doctors ? Why are you so jealous of them?

Yale Guen Mar, grow up. Accept your mediocrity and learn to appreciate other people's achievments.

Heck, you can't even stand the fact that your brothers Donald and Eugene did well as medical doctors. This is taking sibling rivalry to ridiculously vicious levels.

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There was a Chinese family, both husband and wife graduated from UC-Davis medical school. At 4 P.M. the husband and children said they had enough. The wife/mother said: "One more time", and went up the slope on a ski-lift. The husband and children waited and waited until 5 P.M. before they called the operator to look for her. They never found her.
The next summer, two hunters found her handbag, IDs, and human bones on the other side of the slope. She was probably the only one up the hill, and ski off the wrong side of the hill!!!
Look at you, Yale Guen Mar. You don't even have a college degree or even a wife. And you are claiming that you didn't go to college because you didn't want to die in a skiing accident.

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You don't need high IQ to be a doctor, just good grades in medical school.
My brothers are medical doctors.
My son is a medical doctor.
They are highly respected people.
But, Yale Guen Mar, you are not respected even inside the Mar clan. They know you for the vindictive scum that you are.

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Dr. Eugene Yale Mar has been a quadriplegic since his ski accident, and I think he has even stopped practicing medicine, and may have been under state care. His wife dorvorced him. His son lives in the Phoenix area.
So now you bear ill-will toward your kid brother Eugene because he is a medical doctor and because refuses to be your friend on Facebook?

Grow up Yale Guen Mar.

And, yes, Eugene refuses to have you as his friend on Facebook because he is wary of your intentions. You have done nothing to show that you have the welfare of your kid brother Eugene in your heart.

If Dr. Eugene Yale Mar joined his older siblings Ellen and Donald to get rid of your gun collection and album of photos of your favorite pigs, it is to protect you from yourself.

But you still haven't forgiven your kid brother for that !! How low can you get ?

Yale Guen Mar (who posts under the fake name of Resty Wyse) do you understand why Ellen, Donald and Eugene had to do what they did.

Because of your unstable temperament, you were a menace not just to yourself and your relatives but even to your neighbors.

Ellen, Donald and Eugene had to get rid of your gun collection and album of photos of your favorite pigs from the room in your parents' home on 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ. They were only trying to save you from yourself.

You are a loser, Yale Guen Mar.

Yale Guen Mar, you still have not been able to forgive Ellen, Donald and Eugene because they got rid of your gun collection and the album of photos of your favorite pigs from your room in your parents' house on 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ. And also because they graduated from college and are success stories in their chosen professions.
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The Quingming Festival is on April 5. Be at East Palm Cemetery in Tucson, AZ. Your parents are resting in peace at Lot 49 of the cemetery.

Here's the address and phone number:

East Palm Cemetery

5801 East Grant Road #C
Tucson, AZ 85712

(520) 886-5561

Yale Guen Mar, if you are there on Quingming Day you will get to meet your relatives who gather there every year for tomb sweeping at the Quingming Festival.

Your siblings Donald, Ellen and Eugene meet at Lot 49 every year. This year they will be joined by Brenton, Luca and Valentina. Even Silvia and May Fung will fly down from Boston to honor the family patriarch Tony Chee Mar and the family matriarch Kim Hi Wong.

Join them to tidy up the tombs. Cleaning the tomb and paying respect to the dead person with offerings are the two important parts of remembering the past relatives. Take out the weeds and add fresh soil to show your respect for your ancestors.

Offer food, wine (favorite wine for both Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong was Mai Tai) and paper money to them.

Kowtow before the tombs as a show of respect.

Yale Guen Mar, wear willow branches over your head and ride swings with Luca and Valentina.

And, after that, fly kites and go for hiking with siblings Donald, Ellen and Eugene and with Brenton, Silvia, Luca and Valentina.

But, Yale Guen Mar, don't forget to take your boxes of diapers and wipes with you. Change into a fresh diaper every so often to make sure that your shit doesn't drip while you are inside East Palm Cemetery in general, and at Lot 49 in particular.

Yale Guen Mar, if you play your cards right, all might be forgiven. Eugene might yet accept you as a friend on Facebook.

Yale Guen Mar, don't forget Tony Chee Mar's death anniversary (March 28th ) and the Quingming Festival (April 5). Take a train to Tucson, AZ. Be at East Palm Cemetery.

Funeral rites for an elderly person follow the prescribed form and convey relevant respect: rites befitting the person's status, age etc. are performed even if this means the family of the deceased must go into debt to pay for them.

Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suye Oy Wong were fortunate to be honored at their burial by their children and grandchildren. They lie buried side by side in Duncanville, Texas.

Nephew Yale Guen Mar was not welcome at the funerals by the Mar clan, and for understandable reasons.

But then Yale Guen Mar wasn't welcome at the funerals of his parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong either. No one wanted him at the funerals.

At Qingming Festival every year, Homer Yale Mar and his siblings Virginia, Lawrence and Clarence pay respect to their parents Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong, and all relatives and ancestors who have passed away. They spend time tidying up the graves and tombstones of Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong. They offer food, flowers and paper money to their ancestors.

In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar spends time sulking about times when he got spanked by his father Tony Chee Mar and mother Kim Hi Wong for misbehavior.

Yale Guen Mar, be at the tombs of Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong in Tucson, AZ this Tuesday (April 4) for Quingming Festival. Join siblings Donald, Ellen and Eugene at the tombs. Brenton. Luca, Valentina, and even Silvia and May Fung will be there to honor your ancestors.

Yale Guen Mar, you were not there at the funeral of your "dad" Tony Chee Mar and of your mom, Kim Hi Wong.

To your eternal shame, you have never visited the tombs of your parents.

Now is the time to make amends. Buy a railway ticket from Merced, CA to Tucson, AZ. There is a direct train service between the two towns. It will cost you less than $70.00

https://www.goticket.io/train/tucson,az/merced,ca/
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You kept talking about "Quingming Festival." No one in my family ever heard of it. You are more "Chinese" than any of us, Satish!!!!
Speak for yourself, Yale Guen Mar (aka Resty Wyse) - don't malign your family.

Yale Guen Mar, it all your fault if you have turned your back on Quingming Festival. Your family (including kid sister Ellen Heath) hasn't.
You kept talking about "Quingming Festival." No one in my family ever heard of it. You are more "Chinese" than any of us, Satish!!!!
Speak for your self, Yale Guen Mar (posting under the fake name of Resty Wyse). Don't make generalizations about the family based on what you want them to avoid. Misery loves company. And you want the rest of the family to be as miserable as you are.

In fact, even you cannot be so "un-Chinese" as not to have been familiar with what you are supposed to do at the Quingming Festival.

Ellen, Donald, Eugene and even your other sister celebrate the Quingming festival in a big way.

And so do Brenton, Luca and Valentina.

It is your loss that you don't join them and be happy.

Yale Guen Mar, you are already 80 with one foot on your grave. Try to join your relatives to celebrate the Quingming Festival.

This year it is on April 5.

Take a train from Merced, CA to Tucson, AZ. Be at the grave. It is in East Palm Cemetery (look for Lot 49).

Here's the address and phone number:

East Palm Cemetery

5801 East Grant Road #C
Tucson, AZ 85712

(520) 886-5561

I am pretty sure Donald, Eugene and Ellen will be ther on April 5. Even Brenton, Valentina and Luca might be there to honor Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong,

They will sweep the grave and clean the tomb stone. They will offer flowers, paper money, choicest mai tai and burn incense.

Yale Guen Mar, there is always a first time. Don't be shy to join them on April 5 at the grave site of Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong. You won't regret your decision to celebrate the Quingming Festival and die a happier man.
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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
Yale Guen Mar (aka Resty Wyse), can you blame your relatives if they think so poorly of you? What have you done with your life to deserve any better?
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"Quingming Festival." No one in my family ever heard of it. You are more "Chinese" than any of us, Satish!!!!
Sam Kee, my great-great grandfather - retired in Hong Kong. Bought a 5-story building in Central Queens Road, married an 18-year-old girl. Hong Kong has no land for graves. Dead bodies must be created and you paid yearly to keep it somewhere. Once you don't pay, they throw them out.
Mar Kim - died in Tucson in the early 1950s. I have never seen his grave.
My grandfather was killed in Nogales, Arizona. No grave.
My father - died and buried in Tucson. Saw his grave once.
Now, what "Quingming Festival"??? What is so special about it???
Sam Kee begat Mar Kim

Mar Kim married T. Mar (Chan was first husband who sired the twins Ben Shee Mar and Tony Chee Mar)

Second husband of Mar Kim (T. Mar) adopted twins Ben Shee Mar (buried in Texas) and Tony Chee Mar (buried in Arizona). They were born on 11/5/1915

Ben Shee Mar begat Homer Yale Mar who was born in 1935. He retired as a colonel of the US army.

Tony Chee Mar begat Yale Guen Mar (born on 2/1/1938).

Tony Chee Mar also begat Arizona physicians Eugene Yale Mar and Donald Yale Mar. and Ellen Heath.

Yale Guen Mar's photos:

https://picasaweb.google.com/112462267608865651931/ScrapbookPhotos#

Yale Guen Mar's live-in-nurse Meichi Thai:

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Here is the photo of Yale Guen Mar's spiritual counselor who belongs to the Falun Gong. Yale Guen Mar wears a locket with this spiritual counsellor's photo as a talisman:

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Ellen Heath, Donald Yale Mar and Eugene Yale Mar always visit the graves of Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong at Quingming Festival.

Yale Guen Mar never does. He even tried to persuade kid sister Ellen Heath not to join her other siblings on Quingming Festival.

But, the kid sister as she is (11 years younger than Yale Guen Mar aka Resty Wyse), Ellen Heath is far more mature and intelligent than the naysayer Yale Guen Mar. She always joins her siblings Donald and Eugene at the East Palm Cemetery in Tucson, AZ at Quing Ming Festival to honor her parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong.
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Oh!!! Mr. Singh came to my house and told me he will be going back to India for about two months. His son is doing very well with his trucking company!!!
That was very nice of Ravinder Singh - to visit you before he left on his vacation in India.

Mr. Ravinder Singh shudders every time you pay him a visit - for him it is one more sofa down the drain.

So he may have decided it is better to proactively visit you on 3851 Twilight Avenue in Merced, CA.

But, Yale Guen Mar, you are already 80. Must you remain hygienically challenged all your life?

The Singhs and the Lees always get to discuss you because both are victims of your hygienically challenged ways.

All your Hmong neighbors, regardless of their profession, have come to know of your unsavory life style from Mr. Singh as well as from the Lees.

BTW, everyone had a big laugh when they found out that you wanted to buy condoms for your middle fingers. Aren't you trying to bolt the stable door after the horse has fled?

The best you can do to save your middle fingers would be to rush to your doctor in Cambodia for alternate medical treatment.

Try to pay attention, Yale Guen Mar, when you take English lessons from Ravinder's grandkid who has better grip of English after such a short time than you have after 65 years in USA.

Credibility was never your strong point, Yale Guen Mar, and for very good reasons. Truth and you have always been strangers.

Remember the time you got spanked by your uncle in Junction City for intently looking at pigs as they urinated? You told your uncle that you were doing so because you wanted to become a urologist. Your uncle knew you too well and spanked the day lights out of you as punishment for your filthy pleasures.

Merced Community Food Market is about 3 miles from your house. Why do you insist on going for grocery that far? Just to fart in Mr. Lee's store? You have no consideration for others. You not only aggravate Mr. Lee but all his customers as well. Who will buy the opo squash that you have fumigated with gas leaking out from your asshole? You are bad news for hygiene.

If you were not an idiot, you wouldn't be committing nuisance on Ravinder Singh's sofa so often. Accidents can happen once. But if it happens that often, it shows that you are nothing but an idiot.

Speaking of assholes, how is yours? Meichi Thai has been telling your Hmong neighbors about your recent travails when your hemorrhoids started bleeding. You may have bled to death if she hadn't inserted tampons inside your stinking asshole.

I think you should opt for surgery to get rid of the hemorrhoids. Or else you should rush to your doctor in Cambodia to see if he can cure you with alternate medical treatment.

Yale Guen Mar, you are already living in hell stuck to your bed pan 24/7. But even this will look like a picnic when the grim Reaper takes you where you actually belong.

Yale Guen Mar, should rush to your doctor, Dr. Long Dong, in Cambodia to see if he can save your middle fingers with alternate medical treatment.
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Too bad your face is not showing up, Dr. Dong!!!
Yale Guen Mar, Dr. Long Dong is the key to your salvation.
Dr Long Dong is a quack. It took him a long long time just to respond with "UK" when I asked him about his qualification as a medical doctor. I asked him to name the university, his medical adviser, his years in medical school, and the year he graduated.
So far, no response.
Yale Guen Mar, it will be your funeral, not Dr. Long Dong's.

Rush to Cambodia for alternate medicine treatment under Dr. Long Dong.

And as long as you are alive, don't forget your filial duties. Do visit the graves of Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong in Tucson, AZ.

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I haven't seen her for a long long time.
She's older than me.
She may have died.
One time while visiting her, I asked where her husband is.
She said he died. Within 2 years of her husband's dieth, her husband's younger brother died, hwe husband's younger sister died along her sister's husband.
Yale Guen Mar, shed your false pride. Get help from your message carrier cousin in Santa Clara. She wants to help you out and has been in touch with three restaurant owners on W Thatcher Blvd. in Safford, AZ.

They are willing to finance your board and lodging at a pig sty owned by one of the restaurant owners.

Settling down in Safford, AZ will make it easy for you to visit the graves of your parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong whenever you wish to. Hopefully that will be often.

The year of the dog has been upon us, Yale Guen Mar. Time for a new beginning for your wretched life. Do make a resolution that you shall be visiting Tony Chee Mar's grave from now on. He is buried in East Palm Cemetery (Lot 49) in Phoenix, Arizona.

Your best option is to take a train ride to Tucson, AZ.

Take a train from Merced, CA to Tucson, AZ. Be at the grave of your parents Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar. It is in East Palm Cemetery (look for Lot 49).

Here's the address and phone number:

East Palm Cemetery

5801 East Grant Road #C
Tucson, AZ 85712

(520) 886-5561

Also, try to get along with Ellen, Donald and Eugene.

Yale Guen Mar, you still have not been able to forgive Ellen, Donald and Eugene because they got rid of your gun collection and the album of photos of your favorite pigs from your room in your parents' house on 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ.

Yale Guen Mar, 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ should have been like your home. Instead you chose to make it a storage place for your contrabands.

Your siblings had to intervene not just to save your parents from you but even to save you from yourself.

Get over all your grudges. Get ready for the Quingming Festival.

Sweep the graves. Polish the headstones. Offer play money, flowers and the choicest mai tai. Burn incense.

Most of all, pledge to come back to the grave at the next Quingming Festival to do the same.

In fact, try to relocate to Safford, AZ to be better able to perform your filial duties.
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My son-in-law used to work for Rockwell Collins in San Jose. The plant was closed but they kept him working at home and paid him 40 hours a week. They kept telling him this is the last project for two years. Finally he told the company that Lockheed had offered him a job twice already and if he still won't go, Lockheed will never offer him a job again. The company finally stop sending him work so he can go work for Lockheed.
Yale Guen Mar, did you ever attempt to find out why Valerie, Kimberly and Brenton are so worried about your mental health? Do you know why they dread every meeting on skype between you and Judah, Luca or Valentina?

Why don't you go to a shrink? Medical will surely pay for your treatment. Uncle Sam has always taken care of your basic needs. Uncle Chang merely grants you 50 cents per approved post.
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Yale Guen Mar, stop lying about your cousins Homer, Virginia, Clarence and Lawrence. You lie even about your siblings Ellen, Donald and Eugene. The lies do you no good. No one trusts you - not your relatives nor your Hmong neighbors.
Olathe, Overland Park restaurants cited for roach infestations - roach infestation occurs after Satish worked there for a while!!!
So, Yale Guen Mar, at the fag end of your miserable life, don't you have anything better to do other than bad mouthing Kansas and the Mar clan (not necessarily in that order) ?

Yale Guen Mar, stop lying about your cousins Homer, Virginia, Clarence and Lawrence. The lies do you no good. No one trusts you - not your relatives nor your Hmong neighbors.

Here are some of your your lies about cousin Homer.
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Homer said his middle brother is a Vice-Chairman of Dell. If he's any kind of vice-chair of any corporation, people would know him well in the industry.
Like you, Homer is a liar.
Clarence has nothing to show off except his fat belly!!!
So, Clarence like Homer is fat too?!!

If anyone is fat in the Mar clan, it is you, Yale Guen Mar. That is why you felt bullied not just by Homer but by all your siblings and cousins. They used to all laugh at you.

Aren't you the one with a fat belly? Haven't you always been the laughing stock in the neighborhood because of your fat belly?

And Clarence Yale Mar is a failure because he is the Vice Chairman at an international hi tech company in Austin, TX?

Yale Guen Mar, you are so jealous that you must pooh pooh Clarence's status as respected leader in a hi tech industry by posting that he has nothing to show off except his fat belly. How low can you get?

Yale Guen Mar, get over your jealousy.

If you don't want to respect Clarence for his achievements and status in the industry, that is your problem, not his.

Yale Guen Mar, given your record, you wouldn't have been hired even as a janitor at Dell. And you are now saying that Clarence is a failure because he is a Vice Chairman at Dell?

Frustrations have taken such a heavy toll on you, Yale Guen Mar, that you don't even realize that you are reaffirming your status as a buffoon (and a jealous buffoon at that) by calling that Clarence a failure.

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Homer's youngest brother works for IRS as a corporate auditor in San Jose.
And you think that makes Lawrence Yale Mar inferior to you in some way? Does he have a fat belly like you?

Get a life, Yale Guen Mar. You can blame no one but yourself for your life of wasted opportunities and failures.

Yale Guen Mar, it would be prudent of you to seek Larry's advice to your own predicament from unreported foreign income (the 50 cents per approved post from PRC).

Yes, the total amount of this income is small. But you may have violated laws by failing to report it to the IRS.

Cousin Larry is very well versed in Tax laws. Try to get his response to your situation. Find out if there is a way for you to come clean with the IRS. Otherwise you risk spending your golden years in a penitentiary and a death on its shower floor as you get sodomized by fellow inmates.

Is it any wonder that not to speak of your cousins, even your siblings don't think much of you.

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Dr. Eugene Yale Mar has been a quadriplegic since his ski accident, and I think he has even stopped practicing medicine, and may have been under state care. His wife dorvorced him. His son lives in the Phoenix area.
So now you bear ill-will toward your kid brother Eugene because he refuses to be your friend on Facebook?

Yale Guen Mar, must you so uncaring and cruel to your kid brother Dr. Eugene Yale Mar? Must you be so vindictive? Eugene was only trying to protect you against yourself.

Grow up Yale Guen Mar.

And, yes, he refuses to have you as his friend on Facebook because he is wary of your intentions. You have done nothing to show that you have the welfare of your kid brother Eugene in your heart.

If Dr. Eugene Yale Mar joined his older siblings Ellen and Donald to get rid of your gun collection and album of photos of your favorite pigs, it is to protect you from yourself.

But you still haven't forgiven your kid brother for that !! How low can you get ?

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American teen-agers and strict-parents are explosive combination. Ellen ran-away from home, and stayed at friend's house. After graduation from college, she worked for Play-Boy Club in Chicago. If anyone hated her parents, it was Ellen. Ellen and I were the only ones who didn't attend our mother's funneral.
But that's not what Ellen says. You were the only one who didn't attend your mother's funeral.

You were still sulking because she had punished you as a young boy in the hope that you will abandon your mischievous ways.

Ellen graduated from college whereas you had to buy a fake degree from a diploma mill. And even that didn't work. You ricocheted from one firing to another janitorial job at restaurants. And finally you gave up.
You have subsisted on welfare checks from Uncle Sam and now you supplement the welfare checks with 50 cents per approved post from Uncle Chang.
Ellen and her cousin Gini (uncle Ben's daughter Virginia) have pooled resources to document the Mar clan's history.
Ellen and I didn't even know Gini and never ever saw her. No one in my family ever met Ben's family after 1949, except ny the end of my father's life, he came to our house, and left before I came back.
But you still know all about the fat bellies of your cousins and even of Cynthia.

And you also know that cousin Homer would get out of your parents' home before you came in because he was afraid that you would punch him !!!

Ellen and Gini have been great friends for years. And they are now collaborating to document the history of the Mar clan.
Donald and Eugene appreciate the efforts of Ellen and Gini to honor the ancestors and so do Homer, Clarence and Larry.
Ellen, Donald, and Eugene never met or even know of Ben's family. And our family never knew or ever met Gini, Clarence or Larry.
That's not what Ellen, Donald and Eugene say.

Yale Guen Mar, you cannot wish away your siblings and your cousins just because you are jealous of them.
Near the end of her life, their mother wanted to see me. I said we lived in the same house in China, and she never ever talk to us, there is nothing to talk about today.
Aren't you making a virtue of necessity?

You were not there at the funeral of your parents, aunt and uncle because no one in the Mar clan wanted you there.

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No one believes in ancestor worshiping in our family. Let the dead be the dead and stop talking or thinking about it.
Yale Guen Mar, you missed yet another opportunity last Sunday (November 5). It was Tony Chee Mar's 102nd birth anniversary.

Ellen, Donald and Eugene got together at Lot 49 at East Palm Cemetery in Tucson, AZ.

Homer, Gini, Clarence and Larry did the same at Little Bethel Cemetery in Duncanville, TX.

Yale Guen Mar as usual sat in his red sofa alone and sulked. He still bears grudges against his parents, siblings and even against his cousins that he claims he has never met !!

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"...during the Chinese Ching Dynasty."
Don't ever call the Qing Dynasty "Chinese". From 1644 - 1911, there was no China. What was known as "China" became Manchuria. And the "Chinese" were forced to become Manchus by the first imperial order issued to "lose your hair or lose your head", therefore the shaved forehead and queue, a Manchu culture and the Manchu style clothing. Even today, a hundred and seven years after the fall of the Qing Dynasty, every new year, Chinese calendar still shows children wearing Manchu style clothing and hairstyle. You still have not lost your Manchu stigma.
Yale Guen Mar, it seems you are still sore that Tony Chee Mar cut off your pigtail the moment you landed in San Francisco on the Thanksgiving day of 1949.

You shouldn't bear grudge against Tony Chee Mar for refusing to shave a straight line along your head either.

Tony Chee Mar wanted to be a thoughtful father for an 11-year old boy he was seeing for the first time in his life. Tony had declared himself to be your father so that you could find refuge in USA after the imposition of CCP dictatorship in Beijing.

Yale Guen Mar, your "father" didn't want you to be ridiculed and heckled by your school mates in the new country.

That is why he chopped off your pigtail as soon as you got off the boat in San Francisco. And that is why he shaved off all your hair so that you could grow a normal crew cut and meld with your classmates.

But don't be an ingrate. Tony Chee Mar did his best to bring you up properly. You owe him immense debt.

* Tony Chee Mar got you into USA when The Communists took over mainland China.

* Tony Chee Mar taught you English and Math.

* Tony Chee Mar told you all about rational numbers and irrational numbers.

* Tony Chee Mar gave you a job at his cafe.

* Tony Chee Mar let you retain your room in his house on
914 10th Street in Safford, AZ long after you were past your teens.

* Yale Guen Mar even gifted you a 1963 Pontiac on your 25th birthday.

The least you can do is to visit Tony Chee Mar's grave now and then. Do so on November 5 (birthday), March 28 (day of death) and, of course, at Quingming festival and the Hungry Ghost festival. You will be a happier man if you do so.
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Take them, Satish. I want no part of them!!!
Yale Guen Mar, were you unhappy when Tony Chee Mar gifted you a 1963 Pontiac when you were 25 ? He did it in the hope that such generosity will give you the incentive to turn over a new leaf.

But Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong learnt to their eternal regret that while you can drag a mule to a well, you cannot make it drink from it.

Ellen Heath, Donald Yale Mar and Eugene Yale Mar have always held the family to be dear and it has made them happy.

You harm no one but yourself when you push the family away.

Yale Guen Mar, you have taken sibling rivalry to ridiculously vicious levels.

Why can't you appreciate the achievements of your brothers Donald and Eugene who are successful as medical doctors ? Why are you so jealous of them?

Yale Guen Mar, grow up. Accept your mediocrity and learn to appreciate other people's achievments.

Heck, you can't even stand the fact that your brothers Donald and Eugene did well as medical doctors. This is taking sibling rivalry to ridiculously vicious levels.

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There was a Chinese family, both husband and wife graduated from UC-Davis medical school. At 4 P.M. the husband and children said they had enough. The wife/mother said: "One more time", and went up the slope on a ski-lift. The husband and children waited and waited until 5 P.M. before they called the operator to look for her. They never found her.
The next summer, two hunters found her handbag, IDs, and human bones on the other side of the slope. She was probably the only one up the hill, and ski off the wrong side of the hill!!!
Look at you, Yale Guen Mar. You don't even have a college degree or even a wife. And you are claiming that you didn't go to college because you didn't want to die in a skiing accident.

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You don't need high IQ to be a doctor, just good grades in medical school.
My brothers are medical doctors.
My son is a medical doctor.
They are highly respected people.
But, Yale Guen Mar, you are not respected even inside the Mar clan. They know you for the vindictive scum that you are.

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Dr. Eugene Yale Mar has been a quadriplegic since his ski accident, and I think he has even stopped practicing medicine, and may have been under state care. His wife dorvorced him. His son lives in the Phoenix area.
So now you bear ill-will toward your kid brother Eugene because he is a medical doctor and because refuses to be your friend on Facebook?

Grow up Yale Guen Mar.

And, yes, Eugene refuses to have you as his friend on Facebook because he is wary of your intentions. You have done nothing to show that you have the welfare of your kid brother Eugene in your heart.

If Dr. Eugene Yale Mar joined his older siblings Ellen and Donald to get rid of your gun collection and album of photos of your favorite pigs, it is to protect you from yourself.

But you still haven't forgiven your kid brother for that !! How low can you get ?

Yale Guen Mar (who posts under the fake name of Resty Wyse) do you understand why Ellen, Donald and Eugene had to do what they did.

Because of your unstable temperament, you were a menace not just to yourself and your relatives but even to your neighbors.

Ellen, Donald and Eugene had to get rid of your gun collection and album of photos of your favorite pigs from the room in your parents' home on 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ. They were only trying to save you from yourself.

You are a loser, Yale Guen Mar.

Yale Guen Mar, you still have not been able to forgive Ellen, Donald and Eugene because they got rid of your gun collection and the album of photos of your favorite pigs from your room in your parents' house on 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ. And also because they graduated from college and are success stories in their chosen professions.
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Satishkumar C. Madhavan, since you think so highly of my family, you can have them. I want no part of them, especially Ben's family. I am ashamed of ALL of them, all worthless.
Yale Guen Mar, you grew up in China from 1938 to 1949.

As a 11 year old boy, you fled to USA to escape the Communit take over in China.

You landed asa 11 year old boy in Safford, AZ.

So you had trhe benefit of growing up in both China and in USA.

But nothing did you any good beccause of your inherent character flaws.

Yale Guen Mar, recall how you ran away from home as a teenager. You ended in Chicago where you tried to enroll as a Bunny Boy with Playboy.

Your mother, Kim Hi Wong, had filed a missing person report with the police. The police found you just in time because you might have got murdered by the unsavory characters you had started mixing with to earn money as a boy prostitute.

When you cam back home, your sister Ellen (who was 11 years younger than you) cried and cried and made you swear never to run away from home again.

But then you misused your stay with your parents Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar.

Yale Guen Mar (who posts under the fake name of Resty Wyse) do you understand why Ellen, Donald and Eugene had to do what they did.

Because of your unstable temperament, you were a menace not just to yourself and your relatives but even to your neighbors.

Ellen, Donald and Eugene had to get rid of your gun collection and album of photos of your favorite pigs from the room in your parents' home on 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ. They were only trying to save you from yourself.

Yale Guen Mar, you still have not been able to forgive Ellen, Donald and Eugene because they got rid of your gun collection and the album of photos of your favorite pigs from your room in your parents' house on 914 10th Street in Phoenix, AZ.

Yale Guen Mar, 914 10th Street in Safford, AZ should have been like your home. Instead you chose to make it a storage place for your contrabands.


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I am very much interested in hearing from Chinese-Americans within the
United States on how their aged parents/grandparents were faring in
their sunset years. It was ironic for me growing up in a small town,
living in California most of my adult life about a thousand miles from
"home". As each of us gets older and educated, we leave "home" only to
come "home" for visit once or twice a year. My sibblings live in
Tucson about 125 miles away leaving my parents alone at "home". To me,
"home" was, is and will always be 914 10th St. and I never take any of
my things from "home" to California.
Then my father got sick and checked into the hospital. My brother in
Tucson returned "home" and talked to the doctor, who said my father may
be in hospital for about a week. Since my mother can not speak English
and alone at home, he decided to transfer my father to Tucson Medical
Center where he works and move my mother to a retirement home in
Tucson. The house was sold. "Home" is no more. All my college year
photos were gone, my short-wave radio, my gun collection, everything in
my bedroom, including the photos of my favorite pigs, were thrown away
or given away without telling me.
My father recovered and moved into the retirement home with my mother,
each taken up a room with a cost of $1,200/month each for a total of
$2,400. With no outside activities and eat and sleep, my father died
in 15 months later. My mother died two years later after my father. I
believe my mother died of loneliness and neglect. I have 3 sibblings
living in Tucson, not one would visit and talk to my mother often
enough to care.
Yale Guen Mar, can't you ever get over the loss of your gun collection, photos of your favorite pigs and your short-wave radio? Donald and Eugene were only trying to protect you from yourself.

Yale Guen Mar, you are being grossly unfair to your brothers Eugene Yale Mar and Donald Yale Mar. They were achievers. The only reason they got rid of your gun collection, short-wave radio and the photos of your favorite pigs was to save you from yourself.

Quit holding grudges against Donald and Eugene, Get their help to cope with your problems.

Funeral rites for an elderly person follow the prescribed form and convey relevant respect: rites befitting the person's status, age etc. are performed even if this means the family of the deceased must go into debt to pay for them.

Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suye Oy Wong were fortunate to be honored at their burial by their children and grandchildren. They lie buried side by side in Duncanville, Texas.

Nephew Yale Guen Mar was not welcome at the funerals by the Mar clan, and for understandable reasons.

But then Yale Guen Mar wasn't welcome at the funerals of his parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong either. No one wanted him at the funerals.

At Qingming Festival every year, Homer Yale Mar and his siblings pay respect to their parents Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong, and all relatives and ancestors who have passed away. They spend time tidying up the graves and tombstones of Ben Shee Mar and Susan Suey Oy Wong. They offer food, flowers and paper money to their ancestors.

In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar spends time sulking about times when he got thrashed by his father Tony Chee Mar and mother Kim Hi Wong for misbehavior.
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No, Satish. I hated my parents, my relatives, my ancestors,...
As a matter of fact, I hated China and the Chinese people.
They are one of the worse in the world.
Yale Guen Mar, you should be ashamed of yourself. You are badmouthing not just your relatives but china and the billion plus Chinese as well just to hide your very own character flaws.


Yale Guen Mar's uncle (father's twin brother) was a very generous uncle. He had wanted to send Yale Guen Mar to Kansas State University in Manhattan. Yale Guen Mar was, then, working for Uncle Ben as a janitor in Junction City Cafe.

Yale Guen Mar's stint as a janitor at Junction City Cafe in Kansas came to an end when the uncle found out what the lad had been up to. Yale Guen Mar was beaten to pulp, fired from the job and sent back to Arizona.

Ben Shee Mar was twin brother of Tony Chee Mar. They were born on November 5, 1915.

Ben Shee Mar married Susan Suey Oy Wong while Tony Chee Mar married Kim Hi Wong.

Uncle Ben died of throat cancer on July 12, 1986. Aunt Susan died on September, 2004.

They are buried side-by-side in Duncanville, Texas.

Uncle Ben was a good father who gave all his children a college education at Kansas State University.

Uncle Ben was willing to send Tony's son Yale Guen Mar to college as well. But Yale Guen Mar's behavior turned Uncle Ben off. He beat the crap out of Yale Guen Mar and sent him back to Arizona.

Uncle Ben's son (just three years older than Yale Guen Mar) went on to become a colonel in the US Army. Yale Guen Mar, in stark contrast, got a dishonorable discharge from the US Army as a private.

Yale Guen Mar's cousin Colonel Mar still remembers Yale Guen Mar's shenanigans that summer in Kansas.

Yale Guen Mar was a janitor at the Junction City Cafe that summer but he would often play hooky to visit a local pig sty to indulge himself.

Yale Guen Mar's uncle (father's twin brother) was exasperated not to find Yale Guen Mar when needed. One day he found him at the pig sty. The piggery's manager told Yale Guen Mar's uncle that the boy had been spending hours at the pig sty intently watching the pigs defecating and urinating. He has been told that when Yale Guen Mar thought that no one was watching, he would finger-fuck the pigs in their assholes.

Yale Guen Mar's uncle was simply appalled. He wanted to put a stop to his nephews perverted ways.

That day the uncle beat Yale Guen Mar to pulp.

The beating made no difference. So the uncle finally fired Yale Guen Mar from his job at the Junction City Cafe and sent him back to Arizona.

Yale Guen Mar went on to finger-fuck many more pigs in their assholes.

But it was a big jolt for Yale Guen Mar when at the age of 75, he found his middle fingers so badly infected with STDs that his doctor in Merced has been advising him to have them amputated.

The STDs have begun to seep from Yale Guen Mar's middle fingers to his brain. And that explains Yale Guen Mar's maniacally obsessive and erratic behavior.

Yale Guen Mar should have his middle fingers immediately amputated. Or else, he should rush to his doctor in Cambodia to see if the middle fingers can be saved by alternate medical treatment.
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