2017-12-03 12:56:10 UTC
American teen-agers and strict-parents are explosive combination. Ellen ran-away from home, and stayed at friend's house. After graduation from college, she worked for Play-Boy Club in Chicago. If anyone hated her parents, it was Ellen. Ellen and I were the only ones who didn't attend our mother's funneral.But that's not what Ellen says. You were the only one who didn't attend your mother's funeral.
You were still sulking because she had punished you as a young boy in the hope that you will abandon your mischievous ways.
Ellen graduated from college whereas you had to buy a fake degree from a diploma mill. And even that didn't work. You ricocheted from one firing to another janitorial job at restaurants. And finally you gave up.
You have subsisted on welfare checks from Uncle Sam and now you supplement the welfare checks with 50 cents per approved post from Uncle Chang.
But you still know all about the fat bellies of your cousins and even of Cynthia.
Ellen and her cousin Gini (uncle Ben's daughter Virginia) have pooled resources to document the Mar clan's history.Ellen and I didn't even know Gini and never ever saw her. No one in my family ever met Ben's family after 1949, except ny the end of my father's life, he came to our house, and left before I came back.
And you also know that cousin Homer would get out of your parents' home before you came in because he was afraid that you would punch him !!!
Ellen and Gini have been great friends for years. And they are now collaborating to document the history of the Mar clan.
That's not what Ellen, Donald and Eugene say.
Donald and Eugene appreciate the efforts of Ellen and Gini to honor the ancestors and so do Homer, Clarence and Larry.Ellen, Donald, and Eugene never met or even know of Ben's family. And our family never knew or ever met Gini, Clarence or Larry.
Yale Guen Mar, you cannot wish away your siblings and your cousins just because you are jealous of them.
Near the end of her life, their mother wanted to see me. I said we lived in the same house in China, and she never ever talk to us, there is nothing to talk about today.Aren't you making a virtue of necessity?
You were not there at the funeral of your parents, aunt and uncle because no one in the Mar clan wanted you there.
Yale Guen Mar, you missed yet another opportunity last Sunday (November 5). It was Tony Chee Mar's 102nd birth anniversary.
Yale Guen Mar, you are the miserable outlier in the family who stays out of celebrations for the ancestors because of your grudges against Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar.No one believes in ancestor worshiping in our family. Let the dead be the dead and stop talking or thinking about it.
Ellen, Donald and Eugene got together at Lot 49 at East Palm Cemetery in Tucson, AZ.
Homer, Gini, Clarence and Larry did the same at Little Bethel Cemetery in Duncanville, TX.
Yale Guen Mar as usual sat in his red sofa alone and sulked. He still bears grudges against his parents, siblings and even against his cousins that he claims he has never met !!
So now you bear ill-will toward your kid brother Eugene because he refuses to be your friend on Facebook?
Is it any wonder that Dr. Eugene Yale Mar refuses to accept Yale Guen Mar as a friend on Facebook?Dr. Eugene Yale Mar has been a quadriplegic since his ski accident, and I think he has even stopped practicing medicine, and may have been under state care. His wife dorvorced him. His son lives in the Phoenix area.
Grow up Yale Guen Mar.
Like I said. The Mar clan is a barrel of rotten apples.The barrel had just one rotten apple - Yale Guen Mar who posts as Resty Wyse. They are one and the same. Yale Guen Mar was expelled from the barrel a long time ago. He did not attend the funerals of his parents, aunt and uncle because no one in the Mar clan wanted him anywhere near the funeral.